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I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am Widower of a 5yr marriage to a Canadian/ Jamaican. My wife passed away of colon cancer. I submitted to my " Limited Surrender Period!:-? " in my life. I fulfilled my vows! We met on April 26, 2001. We were married on Jan. 6, 2002. Her B-day was April 29th. She passed away on April 1, 2007 I have only been married once... I have a son from a previous relationship before my marriage. I am a musician; I've been playing keys for over 20 yrs by ear... Getting To Know Me More Intimately As for me, I'm 5'10, 180lbs... I'm chatty, quick-witted, self-expressive, imaginative, and approachable. I AM inspired to use my energies, gifts and talents in the service of a higher purpose such as social causes, philosophy, education, the arts, family or spirituality. While I AM sensitive to everything going on around me, my rationality keeps me from over dramatizing situations. I AM ambitious for material success, however more so idealistic and determined to accomplish things that will make a difference in the lives of others. I have a flair for the unusual and the creative and I am drawn to those who shun the conventional. I shy away from those who tend to be TOO BOSSY, INCONSIDERATE, & DON'T RECEIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM! It usually manifests as a rather quick wit. My imagination is so powerful that it is requisite that I have a strong creative or spiritual outlet. I believe that I have a unique view of life and have to find friends and partners with whom I can share it. I think I am right but I could be wrong; my relationships will be most successful when I also have in my life an interest, goal or project which absorbs both my partner & I equally. I have a mind that never quits. I need constant stimulation and am fond of talking, reading, writing and other forms of communication. This nervous energy of mine often translates into bodily tension that needs a physical outlet. I'm also fond of exercise, dancing, or any other activity that keeps me moving about. I am a performer & entertainer, or closely connected with show business, & stage; I'm impressed by cleverness and always appreciate a good joke. I think I'm right but I could be wrong, however, a most important key in "Life" is to wisely, however sincerely, give of the gifts that are given to you & have equanimity to display discipline by loyalty to honesty. Objective reality is the final truth. So it is very important to know that how I observe people or situations is the primary ingredient in choosing a direction. I am learning how to accept people at face value who are different, think different, & act differently from me and realize that this way my life will be more fun and more stable. I see all sides of every question and then invent a few more to explore. I am logical, inquisitive, and mentally alert. In me developing depth and persistence, then I'll have the best of both worlds. I am also a daring spirit that has a love of adventure. I usually try to be very physically fit and enjoy staying in shape. I am optimistic, inquisitive and embrace change. I am an individual who expresses their love of independence often through an unusual life style. I am also accepting of new people and new ideas. The last thing that could ever be said of me is that I'm closed minded. I will try almost anything once..... Love is not Love until it's given away. And after everything that I have experienced, in a love union, romantically others may find me hard to get close to as I would rather sit and chat first then, possibly, get intimate. Simply because others fail to understand that the most valued expression of my love is the expression of my hopes and dreams to another. I AM romantic, sensitive and sentimental. Although I make a caring, affectionate partner, I AM unwilling to forgo friendship and companionship in favor of moonlight and roses. Without mental affinity and common interest, I may become bored and lose interest in the relationship.

Sign

Gemini

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Black

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Art / Music / Literature

My Job Title Is

Musician

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Cool Dude

My Social Behavior Is

Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Cooking, Dancing, Dining, Exercising, Family, Learning, Movies, Music, Playing Cards, Reading

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

My Ideal Person: I am seeking a Beautiful Asian, East Indian, Hispanic/ Latina.... ( Hola mi señorita, como estas? Mamita, tu estas muy hermosa a mi! Espero que todo esta bien; Me llamo Antoine. Yo hablo muy pequito espanol! ...pero yo saber que kierro amor!!! Como quires hacer amor? Cual es su compleanos? Cual es la fechar? Espero que su voy a escuchar!:-? Salude, Dinero, y Amor mi señorita! Pase un bien dia!).... or Caucasian Woman, shoulder length hair or longer, very nice hygene!!! A woman that's very clean and smells good!! A lady that truly knows how to be a sexy vixen for me! A monogomous for me in public and A very, sexy, willing, open-minded, sexual~vixen in the bed~chambers!!!:-* That can work her womanly wiles to & for me willingly!!!! Pretty feet!!! Nicely manicured hands & feet! YES, I DO HAVE A FOOT FETISH! A lady that would love to get her feet rubbed EVERYDAY while sharing w/ me how her day went. I need her to be Open~minded, Honestly Communicative, Easy to talk to, Good Interpersonal Skills, Considerate, Compassionate, Understanding, Loyal&Patient, Loving. A lady that is not too too High maintenance!! .....( BUT THE FEET ARE A MUST! )

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

I Don't Like Politics

My Goal In Life Is

Spread Love. ....Love is without actually considered being love until it is given away.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Adult

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Ambient, Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Gospel, Jazz, Latin, New age, Reggae, Soul, I'm A Recording Artist

When I Read, I Always Read

Ancient, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Health, Home & Garden, Humor, Mathematics, Music, Nature, News, Philosophy, Poetry, Romance, Supernatural, Science, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

H.O.W.

H.)onest
O.)pen~minded
W.)illing

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

My Ideal Person: I am seeking a Beautiful Asian, East Indian, Hispanic/ Latina.... ( Hola mi señorita, como estas? Mamita, tu estas muy hermosa a mi! Espero que todo esta bien; Me llamo Antoine. Yo hablo muy pequito espanol! ...pero yo saber que kierro amor!!! Como quires hacer amor? Cual es su compleanos? Cual es la fechar? Espero que su voy a escuchar!:-? Salude, Dinero, y Amor mi señorita! Pase un bien dia!).... or Caucasian Woman, shoulder length hair or longer, very nice hygene!!! A woman that's very clean and smells good!! A lady that truly knows how to be a sexy vixen for me! A monogomous for me in public and A very, sexy, willing, open-minded, sexual~vixen in the bed~chambers!!!:-* That can work her womanly wiles to & for me willingly!!!! Pretty feet!!! Nicely manicured hands & feet! YES, I DO HAVE A FOOT FETISH! A lady that would love to get her feet rubbed EVERYDAY while sharing w/ me how her day went. I need her to be Open~minded, Honestly Communicative, Easy to talk to, Good Interpersonal Skills, Considerate, Compassionate, Understanding, Loyal&Patient, Loving. A lady that is not too too High maintenance!! .....( BUT THE FEET ARE A MUST! )

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Other, Oral Sex, Group Sex, Just Wanna Fuck